Unconditional Fellowship in Churches of
Christ
I have been around long
enough and due to wide Internet exposure, I am perfectly
aware of a too common practice among many non-institutional churches of
Christ and that is the practice of unconditional fellowship. I say
"unconditional," most do have the condition of baptism, but that is about
it. Let me share with you an excerpt from a report on a local work
that is reflective of the unconditional fellowship
mentality that has invaded many churches and pulpits
and the often attendant consequences of this practice (I shall omit particulars
such as names):
"Problems at the
...church: Every congregation I know in ...(regional area stated, dm) has
a constant influx of Christians from different parts of the world with vastly
different backgrounds. Our policy at ...has been to avoid partyism and accept
all baptized believers, knowing that many have
unconventional ideas. Our hope is that good
teaching will correct whatever is lacking. However, the danger
always exists that some with unorthodox concepts may not receive Bible
teaching and instead may begin to exert their influence on others with
their questionable ideas. This has happened at ....
Our problems revolve around three brethren influenced
by the Pentecostal Movement. One is particularly
friendly and has therefore been able to influence about ten of the new and
weak Christians. I woke up to that fact when they almost succeeded
(when some of us were distracted) in having one of our
new converts give her 'testimony' in front of the
congregation about a sore knee that she felt was
healed....."
Concerned reader, there are
two problems with unconditional fellowship. First, it is absolutely
without biblical authority and, second, it is about the fastest
way to destroy the doctrinal and moral purity of a church. Yet, its
practice continues to the point that many now view it as unquestionable and the
norm. Notice that the well known preacher who wrote the above report said,
"Our policy at ...has been to avoid partyism and accept all baptized believers,
knowing that many have unconventional ideas." Hence, if you practice
guarded fellowship, you are a party member, according to him.
Guarded fellowship is plainly taught in the scriptures.
Many verses set forth the idea, concept, and practice of guarded and protected
fellowship that is predicated on mutual conformity to the scriptures.
Observe the teaching of John:
"5: This then is
the message which we have heard of him, and declare unto you, that God is light,
and in him is no darkness at all. 6: If we say that we have fellowship with him,
and walk in darkness, we lie, and do not the truth: 7: But if we walk in the
light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood
of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin" (I John 1).
"Walking in the light"
entails more than just baptism, it is a way of life and necessarily includes
doctrine and practice. Please also appreciate that
"walking in the light" is stated as a condition in order to have
fellowship (spiritual approval and joint
participation). John actually had a lot to say about
fellowship and its conditions.
"9: Whosoever
transgresseth, and abideth not in the doctrine of Christ, hath not God. He that
abideth in the doctrine of Christ, he hath both the Father and the Son. 10: If
there come any unto you, and bring not this doctrine, receive him not into your
house, neither bid him God speed: 11: For he that biddeth him God speed is
partaker (fellowshipper, dm) of his evil deeds" (2 John).
The
practice of unconditional fellowship is just not a smart practice.
A while back a veteran preacher called me to inform me that the church where he
preached had just split. "An influential family who believed in Radical
Restoration placed membership and then divided the church. They had caused
division in two other churches in the area before they divided the church here."
What is wrong with this picture? In the first place, what right did the
church have to extend fellowship to this doctrinally unsound and in sin family?
I asked my preacher friend, "Did the church check out this family prior to
extending fellowship?" The indication was not really, but they did know
that the family had caused prior problems over Radical Restoration. As I
further talked with the preacher, it became apparent that he had little grasp of
biblical fellowship. Such stories can be multiplied.
"Don, just what do you
propose, perfection on the part of all prospective
members prior to their acceptance?" First, we must respect the teaching of
God's word regarding conditional, yes, "conditional fellowship." In
the case just mentioned, the church based on knowledge
obtained from investigation, should have told the
family, "You have divided the Lord's church over your
false belief relative to Smith's Radical Restoration, and
you must repent of this error and sin before we can even discuss
fellowship and membership."
Out of real love and concern the request should follow,
"We would like to set up some studies with you and consider this whole
matter." Again, all of this takes place PRIOR to the extension of
fellowship in the local church.
"Don, we have never heard of
such a practice and your teaching is promoting
partyism," I am told. I have now been preaching for about 40 years and I
have preached on this subject everywhere I have gone. On a number
of occasions, people have responded to the invitation
that have residual and obvious unrepented of sin, yet,
they want to place membership and be unconditionally
accepted. When I have known of such cases, I simply have
made the announcement, "The Jones wish to be a part of this fellowship
and we appreciate their desire, but there are some
matters that must first be addressed. We will
keep you informed." Now, what is the problem with this?
I have had a family to show up without any prior notice and publicly
express the desire to place membership. In such
cases, again, the simple public statement is made, "We
appreciate the Goodman's desire to be a part of this
local church and we shall pursue this matter and shortly inform you as to
the outcome."
Brethren, I know that I am
called a Diotrephes, trouble maker, and a party
promoter. I have been slandered, maligned, and called about everything
there is because of teaching such as I am doing in this article.
However, the simple fact remains that unconditional
fellowship is a false doctrine that is one of the most
prolific causes of church apostasy and it just is not
smart!
In most churches that have
subscribed to unconditional fellowship, preachers are
often expected to, "Say nothing to offend the new members." Hence, we must
trim the gospel and omit teaching that might not please the new members.
Please do not tell me that this does not happen, I have been there and
seen it many times! In the first place, we do
not "...avoid saying anything that might offend the
new members" or anyone else. Such a practice is
antithetical to Acts 20: 27. Babes in Christ must hear pertinent truths in
order to grow (I Pet. 2: 2). Let it also be known that there is a
vast difference between a biblical babe in Christ due
to time limitation and a member who is bent on error and teaching others his
unsound doctrines (Tit. 3: 10, 11, Rom. 16: 17).
In all fairness, is there any semblance of justification for
the common practice of unconditional fellowship?
There are two primary
rationales offered to justify accepting without
question all who have been baptized. First,
there is the Romans 14 appeal. Romans 14 has become the proof text
to endorse every imaginable sin and the position that
a church must accept all and say nothing that pertains
to their particular sins. Stated succinctly and
simply, Romans 14 does not in any way apply to such a scenario. The
special particularity and circumstances of Romans 14
did not involve immediate and actual sin such as
addressed by this article (Rom. 14: 14). Romans 14 is not a haven for
impenitent sinners and a city of rescue and protection for false teachers while
they peddle their damnable beliefs.
The second rationale is, "We
just cannot grow unless we are able to take in
imperfect people." This article does not advocate simply "turning away
people." In the years that I have preached and served as one of the
elders at Holly Street in Denver, we have had scores
of people to want to place membership. The first
thing we do is privately meet with them and urge them
to check us out by asking probative questions as to our beliefs and
practices and we then inform them that we shall do the same regarding
them, even calling the church where they were last a member. Many have left saying,
"I will not be subjected to such, I will simply go
to....and place membership." They do and we hear, "The
Jones have identified, add them to your church
directories." In many cases, we have found out that the "Jones" split the
church they last attended, practiced and advocated social drinking, or
were in an adulterous marriage. We tried to
study with them, but they knew they could simply place
membership elsewhere with no questions asked. The
result? They continue in sin and also involve the church in sin due
to
unscriptural fellowship practices (I Cor. 5).
For years, I used to hold my
share of meetings across the country. I made it
a point to preach on biblical fellowship in one lesson. On many
occasions, members of these churches would privately come to me and say,
"Don, we have not heard such taught in many years, the church here just
accepts all who claim to have been baptized, no questions asked." I
also recall on several occasions, the local preacher
responding to the invitation, confessing the public sin of teaching and
practicing unconditional fellowship. I remember one meeting in which I
preached on fellowship where half the church and the preacher came forward
confessing to practicing error regarding this matter. Three new families
also responded saying, "We should not have placed membership without first
repenting of our sins." It was a wonderful meeting.
Brethren, it is time to cease
playing around at religion and attempting to build up
churches according to man's standards and ideas. Religion has
often become a joke, even among non-institutional churches of Christ.
We are in it, let's just be plain, for the money, the
numbers, and the grand buildings. We preachers
have our public relation reputations to protect as
"church builders" and we certainly do not want to be known as "church
destroyers, this thinking needs to be replaced with biblical thinking."
Do not be fooled for a
moment, unconditional fellowship is not the result of
love of people's souls. How can it be? If you really love the souls
of men and women, you will attempt to lead them and
teach them in the way of righteousness. To
unconditionally extend fellowship is just to condone them
in their sin. "Don, we take them in and then in a loving climate of
acceptance, we teach them." I have been told this many times.
Let us remember, though, we are to do God's will and not our own. God has set
forth the teaching of conditional fellowship. I have asked some of
these preachers, "How long has the Jones family been
in your fellowship?" Their reply follows along
the order, "They have been members now for a while."
"Have you had classes with them addressing their particular needs and has
there been pulpit preaching that hits on their needs?" The answer
has always been, "We are waiting for the right time to
start this teaching." "When is the right time?"
The answer has been, "When we believe they are mature
enough to accept the teaching." I agree that attitudes and spiritual
maturation all play a part. However, we are using these matters as
a cop out to not do what the scriptures teach.
We are corrupting Jesus' church and selling out to the
devil. Preachers are learning more about how to do
P. R. work then they are gospel preaching (2 Tim. 4: 2-5).
In closing, I call upon all
preachers reading this material to repent of the false
doctrine and practice of unconditional fellowship. I encourage those
who are practicing the truth in this matter to continue and not be
discouraged by the personal attacks of the promoters of "...we avoid
partyism and accept all baptized believers, knowing that many have
unconventional ideas." Preachers, when there is doctrinal weakness in a
church, address it and preach the truth on it instead of tip toeing
around it. This is what "preaching the truth in
love" really is (Eph. 4: 15, 2 Tim. 4: 2-5). We
need more who "...declare the whole council of God" and be
free of the professional baby sitters among us. (To
read more about fellowship, please visit the following: "Fellowship," "An
Exchange on the Consistency of the Fellowship Issue."